BUILD BACK, BETTER
HER EMPOWERED DIVORCE
HOST: Beverly Price, Divorce & Empowerment Coach
GUEST: Ilyssa Panitz, Divorce Journalist & Commentator
SUMMARY:
In this episode of Her Empowered Divorce, we explore how divorce can be a new beginning rather than an end. Host Beverly Price is joined by Ilyssa Panitz, a divorce expert and survivor herself. Ilyssa emphasizes the power of mindset in overcoming challenges such as domestic violence or financial uncertainty. She explains that divorce is an opportunity for personal growth and a fresh start. “Divorce is really just your intermission,” says Ilyssa. “The first act of your life may be done, but we have yet to see what’s going to play out.”
Ilyssa, who hosts “The Divorce Hour” on CRN Digital Talk Radio, shares advice on reclaiming your voice, taking time for self-discovery before jumping into a new relationship, and building a strong support system of friends, family, and trusted coaches. She encourages women to embrace their newfound freedom and reimagine what their future holds.
KEY TAKEAWAYS:
- Invitation to Reinvention: Divorce doesn’t have to mean destruction—it can be a fresh start.
- Becoming the Divorce Journalist: Ilyssa’s personal experience led her to research and become an expert on divorce.
- Pragmatic Roadmap: Practical advice from Ilyssa on navigating divorce with strength and confidence.
- Overcoming Roadblocks: Insights on dealing with domestic violence, financial uncertainty, and poor legal advice.
- Surviving & Thriving: How to bounce back and thrive after a divorce, particularly for your children’s sake.
- The Importance of Support: Lean on friends and professionals who offer non-judgmental support.
- Embrace the Past: Acknowledge that even a failed marriage was once built on love.
- Moving Forward: Focus on finding the relationship you deserve, whether that means working on yourself first or seeking the right partner.
- Dating Advice: Take time to date yourself, rediscover who you are, and be in a healthy place for future relationships.
- Divorce after 40/50: Embrace the wisdom, confidence, and maturity that come with age and life experience.
NOTABLE QUOTES:
- “Divorce is really just your intermission. The first act of your life may be done, but we have yet to see what’s going to play out.” (Ilyssa)
- “Divorce is really all about mindset and if you are determined to say, ‘I want all these great new beginnings’ … it’s such a great opportunity.” (Ilyssa)
- “I didn’t realize that domestic violence can happen to anyone. It’s not just physical, it’s emotional and mental.” (Ilyssa)
- “Watching your life go up in smoke is gut-wrenching and you’ve got to stay strong, especially when you’re that mom or that stable parent.” (Ilyssa)
- “You’re going to feel so different as an individual (post-divorce). I think women develop more confidence, are happier, feel more at peace and start liking themselves better.” (Ilyssa)
- “One thing I’m very firm about is don’t go from your divorce quickly into another relationship without learning about yourself first.” (Beverly)
- “The beauty of age is that it gives you those experiences and makes for more stimulating conversation!” (Ilyssa)
FURTHER RESOURCES:
- Learn more about Ilyssa’s Authority Magazine column, “How to Survive and Thrive During and After Divorce.”
- Beverly’s personal Facebook page can be found [here].
- Join the Women’s Divorce and Empowerment group discussion [here].
ABOUT OUR GUEST:
Ilyssa Panitz is a Divorce Journalist specializing in helping people navigate life after divorce. She writes a column for Authority Magazine on Medium and contributes to various outlets. Ilyssa is also the Content/Editorial Producer for The National Association of Divorce Professionals and hosts “The Divorce Hour with Ilyssa Panitz,” a live-streamed radio show.
ABOUT YOUR HOST:
Beverly Price is a CDC Certified Divorce®️ Coach with over 25 years of experience. She specializes in empowering women through divorce by offering coaching on communication, conflict management, and negotiation skills, as well as legal and financial guidance. Her holistic approach helps clients navigate every step of divorce and recover with confidence.